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Is talking about sex still a taboo subject for parents?

With kids being exposed about sexual matters,topics like sex and relationships are not considered a taboo anymore for modern day parents.It is shocking to know that the result of a new poll declares that "sex still continues being a taboo subject for parents".

The survey Commissioned by the Girls Schools' Association revealed that over one third of parents found such talks hard to initiate when the conversation states about sexual preferences or relationships.

"In India, there's an obvious reluctance among parents when it comes to discussing sexuality or relationship with kids. While some stay silent assuming that the child is getting enough education in school on the subject, other believe that telling children about sex will encourage sexual experimentation, so they would rather focus on other areas like kids' academics and achievements, study habits, leisure time activities etc." according to Dr. RK Gupts,a clinical physiologist,(dealing in behavioural problems of children).

Indu Verma,mother of a 14-year-old daughter shares her story,"I was apprehensive talking about sexuality with my daughter. Though she often approached me with certain queries related to sex, I would just ignore her concerns, presuming that it's not the right age for her and I was also worried that it may affect her mental growth. Moreover, I could never find an appropriate way in which I could start off a discussion with her, so I avoided such talks."

A consultant psychiatrist,(Adult, Child, de-addiction),Dr. M Phani Prasant says, "Worrying that discussing sex has negative consequences on a child's growth are nothing but myths holding parents back from adopting a candid approach towards their kids. They must stop assuming that sexuality is a natural process the child will gradually learn. Parents need to make up their mind first and then look for ways in which they can start off a conversation."

Sex education involves more than just the biological mechanics of reproduction. Ideally, a variety of important topics should be covered including relationships and emotions, sexual feelings, values, gender roles, sexuality, sexually transmissible infections (STIs), pregnancy and birth control, safer sex practices and contraception, sexual acts other than intercourse, sexual problems, sexual preferences etc.

15 WAYS TO MAKE A GIRL SMILE

1.Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause shell feel left out

2.Hold her hand at any moment..... even if it just for a second

3.Hug her from behind

4.Leave her voice messages to wake up

5.Wrestle with her

6.Dont go hang out with your ex when she's not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her

7.If your talking to another girl, when your done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her... let her know she's yours and they aren't

8.WRITE HER NOTES OR CALL HER JUST TO SAY "HI"... AND NOT JUST AT NIGHT AFTER YOUVE BEEN OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS

9.Introduce her to your friends as your girlfriend

10.Play with her hair

11.Let her fall asleep in your arms

12.IF SHES MAD AT YOU, KISS HER

13.EVERY GUY SHOULD GIVE THIER GIRL 3 THINGS:a stuffed animal(SHELL HUG IT EVERYTIME SHE GOES TO SLEEP), jewelry(SHE'LL TREASURE IT FOREVER), and one of your t-shirts(SHE'LL MOST LIKELY WEAR IT TO BED)

14.Look her in the eyes and smile

15.If you care about her-SHOW HER!

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EVER LOVED A WOMAN?

TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN

to understand her-you gotta know it deep inside

hear every thought-see every dream

and give her wings- when she wants to fly

then when you find yourself lying helpless in her arms

you know you really love a woman

WHEN YOU LOVE A WOMAN YOU TELL HER

that she's really wanted

when you love a woman you tell her

that she's the one

she needs somebody to tell her

that its gonna last forever

so tell me have u ever really

-really really loved a woman?

TO REALLY LOVE A WOMAN

let her hold you

-til you know how she needs to be touched

you've gotta breathe her-really taste her

til you can feel her in your blood

and when you can see your unborn children in her eyes

you know you really love a woman

WHEN YOU LOVE A WOMAN

you tell her that she's really wanted

when you love a woman

you tell her that she's the one

she needs somebody to tell her

that you'll always be together

so tell me have you ever

-ever ever loved a woman?

YOU GOT TO GIVE HER SOME FAITH

-hold her tight

a little tenderness-gotta treat her right

she will be there for you, taken' good care of you

you gotta love your woman...

THEN WHEN YOU FIND YOURSELF LYING HELPLESS IN HER ARMS

you know you really love a woman

when you love a woman you tell her

that she's really wanted

when you love a woman you tell her that she's the one

she needs somebody to tell her

that it's gonna last forever

so tell me have you ever really

-really really ever loved a woman??