Sunday, May 10, 2009

Great Pictures - Great Moments

A Real Fight... An Elephant Just Came Out of Water... Transparent Sea in Maldives... you think that the boat is floating on air.... Wonderful Fountain Performing a Boat Shape... Take Away Fast Food.... The Shortest City Name in the World is in Norway with one letter (A) A Bird Drying His Body... Night Beautiful Picture of Shanghai-China... A high resolution picture of the first Atomic Bomb by France in 1968... Gas Cylinder Burns Half of an Island... Smallest Horse in the World 40 cm tall, American farm... The longest name of a City in New Zealand

Beauty of Natures

Monday, January 26, 2009

Is talking about sex still a taboo subject for parents?

With kids being exposed about sexual matters,topics like sex and relationships are not considered a taboo anymore for modern day parents.It is shocking to know that the result of a new poll declares that "sex still continues being a taboo subject for parents".

The survey Commissioned by the Girls Schools' Association revealed that over one third of parents found such talks hard to initiate when the conversation states about sexual preferences or relationships.

"In India, there's an obvious reluctance among parents when it comes to discussing sexuality or relationship with kids. While some stay silent assuming that the child is getting enough education in school on the subject, other believe that telling children about sex will encourage sexual experimentation, so they would rather focus on other areas like kids' academics and achievements, study habits, leisure time activities etc." according to Dr. RK Gupts,a clinical physiologist,(dealing in behavioural problems of children).

Indu Verma,mother of a 14-year-old daughter shares her story,"I was apprehensive talking about sexuality with my daughter. Though she often approached me with certain queries related to sex, I would just ignore her concerns, presuming that it's not the right age for her and I was also worried that it may affect her mental growth. Moreover, I could never find an appropriate way in which I could start off a discussion with her, so I avoided such talks."

A consultant psychiatrist,(Adult, Child, de-addiction),Dr. M Phani Prasant says, "Worrying that discussing sex has negative consequences on a child's growth are nothing but myths holding parents back from adopting a candid approach towards their kids. They must stop assuming that sexuality is a natural process the child will gradually learn. Parents need to make up their mind first and then look for ways in which they can start off a conversation."

Sex education involves more than just the biological mechanics of reproduction. Ideally, a variety of important topics should be covered including relationships and emotions, sexual feelings, values, gender roles, sexuality, sexually transmissible infections (STIs), pregnancy and birth control, safer sex practices and contraception, sexual acts other than intercourse, sexual problems, sexual preferences etc.

Friday, January 23, 2009

15 WAYS TO MAKE A GIRL SMILE

1.Dont hug her friends or your friends that are girls cause shell feel left out
2.Hold her hand at any moment..... even if it just for a second
3.Hug her from behind
4.Leave her voice messages to wake up
5.Wrestle with her
6.Dont go hang out with your ex when she's not with you, you might not realize how badly it hurts her
7.If your talking to another girl, when your done talking, walk over and hug her and kiss her... let her know she's yours and they aren't
8.WRITE HER NOTES OR CALL HER JUST TO SAY "HI"... AND NOT JUST AT NIGHT AFTER YOUVE BEEN OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS
9.Introduce her to your friends as your girlfriend
10.Play with her hair
11.Let her fall asleep in your arms
12.IF SHES MAD AT YOU, KISS HER
13.EVERY GUY SHOULD GIVE THIER GIRL 3 THINGS:a stuffed animal(SHELL HUG IT EVERYTIME SHE GOES TO SLEEP), jewelry(SHE'LL TREASURE IT FOREVER), and one of your t-shirts(SHE'LL MOST LIKELY WEAR IT TO BED)
14.Look her in the eyes and smile
15.If you care about her-SHOW HER!